tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11316075.post111349081397250023..comments2023-10-25T07:57:58.081-05:00Comments on Black Currant Jam: Finding the right fitLorahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06322778291206842093noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11316075.post-1113659986575552122005-04-16T08:59:00.000-05:002005-04-16T08:59:00.000-05:00Thanks Sue,I'm really going to have to pick up one...Thanks Sue,<BR/><BR/>I'm really going to have to pick up one of Linda Berens' books, they seem to be quite insiteful and correct.<BR/><BR/>Funny thing about communication styles, I know that I can be incredible direct. Often I'll politely inform somebody of a situation and then unless they say or do something indicating immediate action I will follow it up with a "therefore, I need you to..."Lorahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06322778291206842093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11316075.post-1113651701962463002005-04-16T06:41:00.000-05:002005-04-16T06:41:00.000-05:00Another Dumbledore here. And another who has trie...Another Dumbledore here. And another who has tried on other types before landing on INFJ. Oh, I'd also recommend Linda Berens' books and the site about interaction styles http://www.bestfittype.com/interactionstyles.html INFJs are 'directing' whereas INFPs are 'informing'. That was an 'aha!' moment for me. INFJs (generally) tell people what they'd like them to do. Politely, of course, but Suehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11835205817921501248noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11316075.post-1113629833878783642005-04-16T00:37:00.000-05:002005-04-16T00:37:00.000-05:00Oceanskies Thank you, for the recommendation. I ac...Oceanskies <BR/><BR/>Thank you, for the recommendation. I actually have looked through this site and information, although I have not seen a copy of the book you mention. The person who created INFJ.com also create the INF_PorJ site and this is the information that made me realize that I am a J not a PLorahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06322778291206842093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11316075.post-1113616076132400182005-04-15T20:47:00.000-05:002005-04-15T20:47:00.000-05:00Hi Lora, I read from this site http://www.infj.com...Hi Lora, I read from this site <A HREF="http://www.infj.com/Clarifying_INFJ.htm" REL="nofollow">http://www.infj.com/Clarifying_INFJ.htm</A>, that the Interaction style model is quite helpful in distinguishing _NFJ from _N_P.<BR/><BR/>In the site, it listed a book that one could refer to for more informaton. The book title is <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/offer-listing/0971214409//oceanskies79https://www.blogger.com/profile/15637499843542653266noreply@blogger.com